movements that do us
 
 
What do you mean, accept it? I don’t want it!
OK, first of all I want to establish that there are some movements that we don’t “do”, but they just happen. They sort of get done to us.
Your heartbeat is one.
We don’t have to remember to do every heartbeat, luckily (I’m so forgetful). Another is jumping when there is a loud noise.
We can’t help it. Also, have you ever been
walking along when you have suddenly ducked
to avoid an overhanging branch, before you’re
even aware that you’ve seen the branch?
It seems to be beyond our conscious control.
It just gets done.
 
There are other ways of moving that we are not
conscious of - the ways we move because
that is the way people move in our family,
or our culture.
These things are learnt at a very early age,
and by adulthood we are usually not aware of them,
and can’t change them.
 
How about this? Notice your breathing. See how it changes when you notice it. At least, we think it changes - we don’t know how it was before because we weren’t noticing it! I’m pretty sure it does change though, because we are good at noticing differences. And it continues to change as we observe. It might feel better, or it might feel worse, but it does change.
 
Now try this. Stand. Bend over towards your toes. It doesn’t matter if you can’t reach your toes. Now breathe. Notice what happens in your body. As you breathe in, your upper body is lifted away from your lower body. As you breathe out you are taken down, deeper into the position. This is important in yoga, letting the breath take you into the postures rather than straining. The breath can literally move us.
 
Feldenkrais Method makes us feel all the movements that the rest of our body does outside the part that we are aware of. Becoming aware of these has the wonderful effect of feeling how our body is all connected. Find some Feldenkrais exercises here.
 
Now go here to find out how to accept your problem.
 
 
 
When we are playing a musical instrument we are usually unaware of most technical things, like fingering, reading the notes or holding a bow.